 In the midst of running a business, programming clients, buying gifts, wrapping gifts, and putting the finishing touches on a hand made project -
I managed to get in my planned training session for the day. I was tired from the lack of sleep and extra activity that comes with this time of year. I was feeling beat up from the volume of work in my training combined, no doubt, with limited recovery. I thought about skipping - Pick things up the next day. I thought about cutting it short - Trim down my supplemental work. Instead, I finished my session. I did what was necessary. I set a new personal best. I did what I needed to move forward. I am not crazy, obsessed, or extreme. I am dedicated. I am dedicated because training is both a part of who I am and who I want to become. Training is one segment in a process of self improvement. It is the simplest, rawest, and most honest method of self overcoming. When you think you're close to the edge, And you consider cutting it short - Giving up and quitting, You find your inner voice - A true voice Reminding you that you're ok. You're not dying, failing, or even close. You're just a little tired. You have this in your grasp. That's when you find the eye of the storm. And your mind is clear. This is just one of the gifts of training. Being mentally tough will help you find the voice of truth when things get difficult. It will help you find a way when there seems to be none. Being able to mentally meet challenges and overcome them is a transcendent ability. Few seem to possess it today. The mind is where you win or lose. The mind drives you to success or dooms you to failure and defeat. If you can master that - you're on your way to achieving whatever you want. It's an ongoing process of work that never ends. The trick is to realize that the work and the result coexist together.
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 Less than one week until Christmas.
It's easy to let go of everything that matters, And let consumerism engulf you. No one will blame you. It's pretty much the norm. People who maintain their disciplines and practices throughout the ups and downs in their schedules and lives are the outliers and oddities, Living on the edges of what is viewed by the whole as normal. Looked upon as "extreme", "fanatical", and "obsessed", They are regarded as something so outside of regular behavior, Their actions, habits, and practices are deemed unnatural and excessive. As if having discipline that carries you through changing times, feelings, and beliefs is a ridiculous concept for a so called adult. The reality is - you’re either about something or not. You’re either making progress or falling back. Completely giving up on anything that moves you forward until a better time is weak minded escapism. This is the norm in today’s society of fast, easy, and entertaining. The truth is these people’s expectations are childish. They want a specific outcome, But only if it comes in an easy and convenient package. The unwillingness to go the distance and find a way through the obstacles in the way shines a light on their truth. They do not have the strength, courage, or vision to grasp what they desire and bring it to life. Like a child, they’re waiting for it to be handed down to them, and placed in their hand. Their desires, dreams, and goals will wither and fade, As their bodies, minds, and spirits follow. And they will be remembered for no great example to anyone. Just another mass consumer. Destined to mediocrity and the void.  Quitting is easy.
Giving up is easier than working to find another way - a better way. It takes courage to stand up to failure. It takes courage because nothing is there to show you a better future. You have to have a vision. Or create a new one. You have to be willing to pull it from the shadows - Out of the darkness and into a place where it can be made whole. You yourself have to give it form and breathe life into it. You are literally working your will over circumstances to create opportunity and success. This is terrifying, because success or destruction is within your hands. Consistency is key. It takes time, though. Continual action - the right action - over time will lead to success. It takes fortitude, as well - Guts and staying power. It's scary to look down that road. Especially when you’re standing in the shadow of failure. One slip, one misstep is all it takes, And it all falls out from under you. It takes attitude; To hold fast, Adapt, Find a way, Or create one where there was none. Better to opt out - quit. Get ahead of the game and stay safe. The problem is, When you give up, you sell out on yourself. You fault on all you’ve invested. When you give up, you fault on everyone who's invested in you. You fault on everyone and anyone who looks to you as an example. You lose your credibility. To yourself. To everyone around. You leave your life. You give it back over to consumption and dependency. Fearing too much the burning heat of action, risk, and reward. Stepping back to hide within the cool shadow of failure. Nothing will ever soothe the feeling inside; The gnawing agony of giving up. No amount of security, safety, or comfort Will make up for what you lost. It is like a small bandage on a large, hemorrhaging wound. The bleeding never stops.  I hate this time of year.
This is the time of year when people give up on themselves and give in to letting go of any sense of control, thinking they’ll play catch up later. Weak ass shit. As someone whose job relies on helping others improve themselves and get better - it is increasingly frustrating, and even heartbreaking, to see people care so little for themselves that they're completely OK with putting off improving and being better until a more convenient time. There is no convenient time. It’s life. There's always going to be things that get in the way. There's always going to be busyness. There’s always going to be an obstacle, a hurdle, a THING. The holidays shouldn't be a time where you're stressed because of the running around - the finding gifts, the parties, the dinners, the time with friends and family. These things are blessings. These things are gifts to be thankful for. They are additions that make your life fuller. The holidays should be things that enhance your life - not make it too busy or more stressful. You're doing it wrong. If you can't figure out how to make time for what's important now - if you can't figure out how to get past your schedule and your so-called busyness now - when are you ever going to? You will forever be subject to the external circumstances pressing in on you. You will forever be a victim - never, ever really in control of what happens to you or what your outcome is. You will always be the product of some other person, or some other circumstance, or some other thing that just won't allow you to get what you want. You’ll always be subject to "if only…" You’ll always be weak. You’ll always be a victim. I've had people talk to me about how I own my own space - I own my own gym. "What's that like?" "It must be nice." "Look at you." "Look where you’re at." "You've got this space." What they don't see is all the behind the scenes. What they don't see is how far out I've put myself. What they don't see is the sacrifices I've made. What they don't see is the sacrifices my family’s had to make. What they don’t know is how far I still have to go. You know what? No one cares. No one cares about my shit. Guess what... No one cares about your shit either. It's your cross. You can either carry it, or be crucified on it. The choice is yours. Manage yourself, start doing great things, and work toward being something great. OR Quit. Give up. Be the victim - the martyr to circumstance. Either way - be perfectly clear and honest with yourself and everyone else. You most definitely have a choice. |
AuthorEric Chasko is the head of Redemption. He is a Performance Enhancement Specialist, Certified Underground Strength Coach, Progressive Fighting Systems Full Instructor, and Blauer Tactical Systems SPEAR: Personal Defense Readiness Trainer. From young athletes to busy professionals, he helps people develop the physical, mental, and emotional strength to win on the field, on the street, and in life. Archives
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